my new year resolution

time been flowing too fast..i am no longer become who i was yesterday..i woke up at 4 am then i got this ilham from God to become more than i am today.stronger mentally n physically.who know i am getting married faster than i thought..Allah plan's alwiz better than ours. Since we are still in Muharam month...i got few new year's resolution that in sha Allah i will try my best to achieve from outside and inside..

1. to become better muslim

• will create a muslim calendar, what shud be done on that day (solat, puasa, etc) and do it sincere for Allah
• alwiz read al Quran and zikir alot.. must have a list for these
• aim for doing haji and umrah
• fix my solat so tht it is consistent and correct
• jaga hubungan sesama insan
• dress properly
• more and more charity

2. to become a better wife

• i am not sure what is my responsibility yet but i m getting married!

12 step for curing broken heart

hi, i would love to share this articles with u guys..worth to read and yes 98% is true. credit to this website http://collegecandy.com/2012/03/23/12-step-program-getting-over-a-break-up

Heartbreak lingers like a hangover. You wake up but don’t want to move, and your head is spinning. Sometimes you need the greasiest pizza down the street has to offer, and sometimes you *can’t eat at all. The only thing that sounds appealing is crawling into a dark cave away from anything (which is everything) that reminds you how shitty you feel. We get it. And we’ve all been that melodramatic. The only real cure for heartbreak is time, but there are definitely ways to spend that time to expedite the process and numb the symptoms.

Like any good doctor (because I think I’ll extend the metaphor a bit farther), it’s good to isolate variables causing pain. Women are often plagued with thoughts and questions like, “What did I do wrong? Why was I not good enough?” Insecurity and self doubt completely consume our minds as we replay final arguments over and over again in our heads. We have the uncanny ability to take on full responsibility when something goes wrong in a relationship (crazy bitch exceptions do apply). But guess what? He’s wasn’t perfect either, so take  him off that pedestal. You have full permission to believe that he sucks way more than you do in the initial stages of a break up (it’s probably true, but even if it isn’t, go ahead and allow yourself the injustice for a bit).

It takes two to make and break a relationship; don’t blame yourself. And don’t entertain thoughts of, “If I were more like X, he would of treated me better.” False. He’s going to treat every woman in his life like that, and he may just be lucky enough to find someone who puts up with his… er, shortcomings (never said the world was fair), but I promise that that girl is no one to envy.  Maybe your guy wasn’t a douche, and it just didn’t work out between you. It’s still not all your fault. There are multiple reasons that the two of you didn’t work independent of you as an individual. Don’t stake your self-worth on it!

The most important thing to do post break up is to rebuild your self esteem. Remember that you got along just fine before you met your ex. You had your own life, your own friends, your own sphere of existence completely independent of his. Maybe some of that network was neglected during the relationship, and it may take time to rebuild, but it can be done. Follow our 12 step program and re-enter the world again as just you… because you’re worth it (yeah, in the voice of that great L’Oréal lady).

1. Cut Off All Communication - This is the hardest thing to do, but the best thing for you. There is no way to get on with your life if you still attempt to use your ex as an emotional crutch. Can you be friends eventually? Sure, but you need to wait until you're certain your motives are strictly platonic. Give yourself a chance to rebuild your life without him. You were awesome before you met, remember?
2. Cry It Out For A Week - It's not a bad idea to give yourself a week to be a total mess. Cry when you want, eat ice cream when you want, and watch all of your favorite chick flicks with a bottle of wine. Your good friends will give you this grace period and join in the festivities. This is your one week pass to wallow.
3.  Write Down All The Reasons It Didn't Work  - When dealing with heartache, it is very easy to look back and long for the good times. Think Peter's flashbacks in 'Forgetting Sarah Marshall.' Take some time and write down everything that went wrong in the relationship. Focus on the negative. Focus on his shortcomings. Every time you start to miss him, read the list.
4. Designate an Ego Booster  - The hardest part about getting through a break up is rebuilding your self-esteem. No matter how strong or confident you are, feelings of self-doubt have a tendency to creep up. Before you start letting thoughts of "Why wasn't I good enough?" creep into your head, call your designated ego boosters and have them remind you why you're awesome and better off
5. Start Working Out  - It's great to have good friends to tell you that you're wonderful, but it's even better to rebuild that assurance in yourself. Who doesn't feel accomplished after a good work out? Not only are you going to look hotter, you're going to feel hotter, and that makes all the difference. Let this good energy permeate into all other elements in your life.
6. Revamp and Revive  - No one feels sexy wearing sweats and hair that hasn't been washed in 4 days. Go to the spa, get a massage, trim your hair, the works. Make yourself over and walk out with a strut in your step. It's much easier to feel confident when you look good.
7. Go Dancing  - Maybe you're not ready to meet another guy, but you should definitely remind yourself that fun exists in the world sans the old significant other. Plus, it's a crime to waste a good make over. Full permission to make a complete fool of yourself on the dance floor.
8. Avoid His Friends  - Remember rule #1? You need to separate yourself from his entire social sphere for a little while. Communicating with his friends about him can be just as harmful as communicating with him directly. You don't have to avoid his crew or your mutual friends forever, but give yourself the appropriate amount of space.
9. Start a Side Project  - An idle mind is never good thing when going through a break up. Throw yourself into a new project or hobby full force. All of the energy and time you used to spend with the ex can now be devoted to a passion of your choice. Paint your room, take up underwater basket weaving. Whatever. Just do it.
10. Acquire A Good Man Distraction  - Nothing bad ever came from a bit of good ol' fashion flirting, but you have to know your limits with the "rebound" guy. First, you need to be fair to the new man. Let him know your situation and that you're only looking for some casual fun. If he's down, let him take your mind off things. Who knows what it could turn into! (Note: I don't suggest jumping from one relationship to another)
11. Write Down The Reasons You're Awesome - Getting over something like this comes in waves. You often take a step forward and then a few back. It's a slow transition. Write another list of all the reasons you're awesome. Focus on the good. Focus on what what's great about you as just you. Read when necessary.
12. Lots and Lots of Happy Hours - Going to happy hours with the girls is probably the greatest therapy currently in existence. Vent, laugh, bitch

throwing tantrum

i observe..lot of my friend around my age can throw tantrum alot, i mean to the well known wall of facebook or telling all the positive stuff doing this and that..then i wonder in my heart is that grabbing attention method , lying to herself how happy she is or just simply being honest to herself that she just wanna tell that out loud to the world..then again , does the silent reader have right to said shit about tht or simply cursing silently...

then again i do wonder, does it part of social network addiction? then, which level is it? no, i dont wanna talk bout tht disease here.. you can simply google it to know it. i juz curious how tht shout out in the wall actually can connect or interact u the people whom u may want to grab the attention and what character these people want .

sleepy...to be continued

chilling at nite

its been a while i didnt update my blog..sorry guys....was having a problem and a lot of work which driving me nut but im trying my best to chillax..

google have improved their look..and i think it is awesome..old design look bored and lame. lot of new feature added and i was trying some of tht..

its already May, a lot of thing happened to me..still i am alive. yet my goal to bcome fit and healthy is still on the way..too long n i di need persistence of doing this. eating healthy food and exercise regularly seem tiring but its a life journey..so keep moving your butt people!

so chills everyone ...hope u gys have a good nite.

hurt but true

I am beautiful

Don't look at me

Everyday is so wonderful
Then suddenly
It's hard to breathe
Now and then I get insecure
From all the pain
I'm so ashamed

I am beautiful
No matter what they say
Words can't bring me down
I am beautiful
In every single way
Yes words can't bring me down
Oh no
So don't you bring me down today

To all your friends you're delirious
So consumed
In all your doom, ooh
Trying hard to fill the emptiness
The pieces gone
Left the puzzle undone
Ain't that the way it is

You're beautiful
No matter what they say
Words can't bring you down
Oh no
You're beautiful
In every single way
Yes words can't bring you down
Oh no
So don't you bring me down today

what's not to love about go0d food?

Its been few years im in kl..been so many places searching for food, love, shopping nand other entertainment. where to eat? is a very common question among me n my click. what not to love food in kl? variety of foods that you can choose but some of them can empty your pocket very fast. so be a smart person and choose wisely. for some fine dining/expensive restaurants , try buy a deal/coupon to give a try/taste the food. lot of deals online nowadays you can choose. other than that, try to be a privileged member so that at least you can get 10% discount of the food. so here are the lists of restaurants that i am somehow a regular customer

• Sushi King

  member Card discount 10%



• Happy Cook

  Awesome 'tai chow' chinese food



• Sana'aa

  Yaman cuisine, in cyberjaya



• Padi

  Im not a fan, but my klik does



• Highway Cafe

  Situated in Serdang, for me although this place looks very old but i give 5 star for the western food!

I will add more in future as i forgot most of the restaurant name :p

u r stronger than u think u are

Speaking of love/relationship, i know some of us are hardly move on even take few years to forgive and forget the thing that happened in the past. some give a reasons that he is the one, nobody can make me feel the same or even some got traumatic experience that they dun want to have anymore significant other. why punishing yourself of something that have been written in your destiny? and for your information my dear reader, it is a fact that when you are together your body creating a chemical or somewhat we call a bond that make u feel comfortable to be around him.

hence, i wanna put a reminder to myself too tht..whatever i give i cnt mgharapkan balasan dr sesiapa pon..seikhlas hati memberi ..Allah itu maha Adil mungkin dgn cara lain Dia mmbalasnya dgn lebih hebat. xspecially kpd org2 yg sabar. although im alreadi give up hoping for him, feel extremely sad tht i m being treated like nobody..i rmmber one of my friend quote

JODOH tu rahsia ALLAH..
ツ SEKUAT mana kita setia
ツ SEHEBAT mana kita merancang
ツ SELAMA mana kita menunggu
ツ SEKERAS mana kita bersabar
ツ SEJUJUR mana kita menerima
Jika ALLAH Tidak Menulis JODOH Kita Bersama dia..
Kita Tetap Tidak Akan Bersama Dengannya ♥..
Kerana tulang rusuk dan pemiliknya TAKKAN PERNAH
tertukar dan akan bertemu PADA WAKTUNYA..
CiNTA : Tak perlu MEMAKSA dan TERPAKSA

so smile n life is goes on...there is gotta b more to life

Raining night

its been 2 days raining..very heavy rain but no thunder! so its kind of romantic nite if u have somebody to snuggle with..or spend time with your belove family in front of tv would be lovely. well it does bring a warmth to the heart..

but tonite im too lazy to cook so juz having a bowl of cereal while watching tiara n toddler. although i am against this show because it is kind of violent to the toddler themselves by their mom who are eager to win that in the name of their kids. mommy out there please dun do this !! why i said that? because they put make up, spray tan and over do the hair for the kid of age from 3..O_O! are you f****** kidding me? hahaha

so have a great weekend everybody!!!

Welcome Speech

this blog is dedicated to those single and fabulous gul out ther to live their life to the fullest. its gotta be more to life then wiping and feeling sorry for yourself.

i would love to talk about life, food, travel and do it yourself(DIY) here. it may seem cliche totalk over and over the same thing but alas, beter have one than none. no target reader but for fun only which how i see my life in my point of view.

so enjoy yourself while taking the ride of life..